“It took me 17 years before I could have Remi, and 17 years wasn’t just infertility, it was nine losses. It was four IVF treatments.” – Tope Fajingbesi
The End of My Tears
After 17 years, nine miscarriages and four IVF treatments, Tope Fajingbesi finally welcomed the daughter she had dreamed of holding. But at just 25 weeks and weighing less than two pounds, baby Remi’s arrival brought a new, heart-wrenching uncertainty. For a mother who had endured so much loss, every moment was precious.
“I saw family in these nurses. They made a difficult situation easy.” – Tope
We’d all become a nice little family together.
Sparking Hope
Over nine weeks, every milestone sparked new hope. At Holy Cross Health, a dedicated neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) team provided more than specialized medical care that Remi needed to grow stronger. Tope found a team that embraced her like family, offered comfort through uncertainty and celebrated every small victory along the way.
“I felt like the only patient. Because they knew me. Because they cared for me.” – Tope
Making Progress
“Remi was this feisty, incredible baby who was super tiny but was making so much progress ... We would help [Tope] to hold, we would help her bond, and we would be there for all of her care.” – Ellen, NICU Nurse
“The relationship we made with Tope really brought the trust to life. All of us really felt bonded and trusted each other.” – Charlie, NICU Nurse
Oluwa-Remi-Lekun
Today, Tope’s days are filled with laughter, adventure, and the joy of watching Remi grow. Their story is more than a journey to motherhood. It is a testament to resilience, the power of compassionate care and the extraordinary difference a dedicated team can make.
For Tope, her daughter’s name says it all: Oluwa-Remi-Lekun – God has dried my tears.
“Remi, for me, means the end of my tears.” – Tope Fajinbesi
Watch Tope and Remi’s NICU Story